What makes new relationships so sense-sational is we get to be vulnerable all over again.  We meet in the field of not knowing—one mystery to another—and feel the flutter of our simultaneous fear and curiosity.  We risk reaching out further and exposing our heart’s...

This weekend at the Lucidity Festival, the Goddess spoke to me in the form of a beautiful black man with long gray dread locks named Astarius Miraculii. He poetically articulated my whole ideology around feminine pleasure and sex magic practices in a single word. I am...

Today in my pleasure practice, I imagined squatting on the whole state of Texas. ‘Cause that’s what the Goddess does when she sees a big dick swinging itself around, knocking down half of the state-supported family planning clinics and cutting off birth control...

I recently read Judith Newman’s interview of Annabelle Gurwitch in The New York Times article “We’re not getting better.  We’re getting older.” I agree with some of Gurwitch’s points regarding women embracing our age. I, too, have abhorred the phrase “50 is the new...

A vision of mine was seeded on the first day of spring when twenty plus women gathered in my home to do sexual practices together as we once did in Goddess temples long ago. I could feel all of our lineages standing behind us, holding the circle.  The container was...