Nothing is sexier than vulnerability
What makes new relationships so sense-sational is we get to be vulnerable all over again. We meet in the field of not knowing—one mystery to another—and feel the flutter of our simultaneous fear and curiosity. We risk reaching out further and exposing our heart’s deepest desire. We behold the divine masculine and feminine in flesh […]
A New Word that Lit Me on Fire. Yes, I’m sharing!
This weekend at the Lucidity Festival, the Goddess spoke to me in the form of a beautiful black man with long gray dread locks named Astarius Miraculii. He poetically articulated my whole ideology around feminine pleasure and sex magic practices in a single word. I am so incredibly turned on by this word, so lit […]
Orgasmic Spring Cleanse
Anatomy of an Orgasm Did you know the clitoris is not just a tiny little concentrated bundle of nerves on the hood of your vagina, but actually has energetic roots extending all the way down your legs to the pulsing magma core of the earth, as well as up through your pelvis and torso? And […]
Sexual Secret Agents: Calling all Women in Texas (and everywhere else)
Today in my pleasure practice, I imagined squatting on the whole state of Texas. ‘Cause that’s what the Goddess does when she sees a big dick swinging itself around, knocking down half of the state-supported family planning clinics and cutting off birth control subsidies by two thirds – $74 million dollars over two years. […]
A Deeper Conversation about Women Aging: Looking in the Mirror that Matters Most
I recently read Judith Newman’s interview of Annabelle Gurwitch in The New York Times article “We’re not getting better. We’re getting older.” I agree with some of Gurwitch’s points regarding women embracing our age. I, too, have abhorred the phrase “50 is the new 40,” which still implies that youth is better. But there are […]
20 Women, Ancient Sexual Practices, My (Modern) Home.
A vision of mine was seeded on the first day of spring when twenty plus women gathered in my home to do sexual practices together as we once did in Goddess temples long ago. I could feel all of our lineages standing behind us, holding the circle. The container was strong, the energy potent. There […]
