Every Woman Has A Million Dollar Magnet inside Her Yoni.  I don’t mean this in the “Pretty Woman” kind of way.   Let me explain.

The other night at my lecture a young woman asked: “How do I create more abundance in my life through practicing pleasure?”

 “Do you self pleasure?” I asked her. She shook her head no.

“Start there, ” I told her. “Just start by touching your body and exploring your yoni with your fingers. Breathe and move in slow motion. Notice sensations. Notice what your fingers feel and how your skin feels and what’s going on inside your skin. If thoughts arise, just bring your focus back to physical sensations. Do this for at least 10 minutes a day for 30 days and see what happens.”

Do I think this young woman will go home and start self-pleasuring? Probably not. She might give it a try, but if she’s like most women, she’ll be up against so many unconscious beliefs around her feminine body and sexuality, she’ll get discouraged, thinking she doesn’t know how to feel or give herself pleasure – or that it isn’t the same without a lover.

She’ll go on with her life, leaving things like sensual intelligence, creativity and intuition to the realm of “mystery” — not knowing from her own experience (which is the only way to really know anything) that feeling her pleasure and desire is how she can magnetize EVERYTHING she wants. Including her ideal lover and financial abundance.

In other words, she’s likely to never REALLY understand that plugging into pleasure and desire on her own is what gives her access to this feminine receptive power 24/7.

 That said, it’s nearly impossible to consistently practice something that’s going to stir up all kinds of unconscious resistance all on your own.

It’s why we have personal trainers and go to yoga and meditation classes. And why I’ve created The Women’s Sexual Mystery School, which begins this Saturday March 7 in Santa Barbara, California and meets the first Saturday of every month thereafter.

When considering whether this course is for you, it’s important to note that everything that’s unconscious (meaning all that we have pushed aside because it’s too edgy to feel) hides out in denial. This allows our unconscious thoughts to hide in our seemingly insignificant surface thoughts.

 Denial is a sinister trickster.

It will try to keep the light of your consciousness out of its subterranean sanctuary by telling you things like: “You already know this.” Or “This isn’t important.”

 It’s true. You literally have two selves inside of you. One is your Self-denial. Its job is to make excuses that will keep you unconscious, and “safe.” It likes to make sure things ALWAYS stay the same.  The other is your Self-desire. This one takes action and constantly moves you towards your greater awareness and potential.

If you’re like me, you fluctuate between the two. My excuse-maker is loudest when I’m standing at the edge of change. I remember when I began my three-year Tantra yoga certification program that met for a week every quarter across the country from where I was currently living. Back then, I was a single mother with a full-time job. My initial spark of curiosity and rush of desire was met by an army of excuses.

“I don’t have time for this.”

“I can’t afford this.”

“I can’t leave my daughter.”

“I don’t know how to do this.”

“I have too many sexual wounds to ever heal.”

My desire won then. And thank goddess it did, because letting DESIRE WIN set a track record for fueling the fire of my faith against the odds ever since – including healing cervical cancer without having to undergo surgery or chemotherapy, and starting a whole new career path around women’s sexuality in my late 40s.

If you are ready to live from the inside out, to move in the world from your deepest desire and claim the mysteries of your feminine sexuality, creativity and intuitive knowing, follow your desire to to and sign up for my Women’s Sexual Mystery School.

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 And if you like what I’ve said here, please leave a comment below. If you have friends who will benefit from this sacred women’s work, please share this link with them.

Thank you!

Love and Shakti,













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