I See Sex as an Advanced Tonglen Practice
I feel most sexually met in nature. I love being licked and lapped up by the ocean . I love spreading my legs open and riding rays of sunlight. I love when the wind’s force tosses me around like puppet on its string. When you’ve been taken by the wind, the sun and the ocean, […]
Only Offering Can Quench Longing’s Thirst
What if you knew you would never be met by your lover in the way your heart most desires? Or any lover for that matter? Would you feel depressed? Or strangely liberated? Would you pretend not to know? Would you keep trying to get rid of or rise above the sadness? In some ways I […]
There are as Many Different Kinds of Sexy as there are Galaxies
At the sexual intimacy workshop this weekend, the women learned how to play with heavier emotional states through dance. We came up with character names for our dances. For example, shame might be danced as a subterranean seductress or sadness might be danced as a longing mermaid. Although we had fun summoning our inner warrioresses […]
Pleasure is the Portal to the Feminine Soul
After a full moon sexual intimacy workshop this weekend, during which I also had my moon, this morning I am feeling particularly ravenous. I hunger to be penetrated. I hunger for cock. Not just my man’s, but all of the men’s cocks in the workshop. When I tell my man this, he is both triggered […]
How Deeply Can You Receive?
Did you know receiving requires more emotional capacity and intelligence than giving? My man is both intimidated and intrigued by my pleasure practice. He is excited of course to be a participant, but not so keen on the idea of going public with our sex life. “What are you going to say about me?” he […]
V-Day 2014: The Multi-Orgasmic Revolution Begins
On this V-Day, I invite women (and men) all over the world to join me in a year long blogging experiment devoted to feminine pleasure. As a teacher of sacred sexuality and a pleasure activist for many years, I have been particularly curious about the relationship between women’s pleasure and women’s health, happiness and […]
Lean in close
…and let me tell you a story. Read this poem in the meantime and let me know what you think.
Come back tomorrow for more…
…and let me tell you a story. Read this poem in the meantime and let me know what you think.
Bloodlines (2007)
Bloodlines opened in Santa Barbara, CA at Center Stage Theater in March of 2007 to a two-week sold-out run. Inspired by writer-director Lisa Citore’s daughter’s first period and coming of age, Bloodlines is a collection of 13 moon time stories from women of different cultures and generations, ranging from poetically profound to wickedly outrageous, interwoven […]
The Tao of Sex (2005)
A poetry, dance and music collaborative interweaving the sensual and the sacred featuring creative renditions of 21 sexual positions of the Tao, The Tao of Sex premiered to a weekend of sold-out performances at University of California at Santa Barbara’s multi-cultural center in 2005. Met by positive reviews exceeding all expectations, Tao of Sex was […]
