The Scent of Desire
My vagina and I are beginning to have real conversations. Though I nicknamed her Penelope, yesterday she told me her real name: “She Who Desires.” I remember this name from past research on Mary Magdalene. Among other translations, Magdalene was a title that meant high priestess, or “high tower,” from Magdala, the small town along […]
The Secret to Even Better Orgasms
I’ve been teased about being obsessed with my vagina. A friend of mine once told me at a party that before introducing his date to me, he whispered in her ear, “Watch, she’s going to be talking about her vagina.” And as predicted, I was! I’ve attended many vagina-related workshops, where I was instructed to […]
Nothing is sexier than vulnerability
What makes new relationships so sense-sational is we get to be vulnerable all over again. We meet in the field of not knowing—one mystery to another—and feel the flutter of our simultaneous fear and curiosity. We risk reaching out further and exposing our heart’s deepest desire. We behold the divine masculine and feminine in flesh […]
What Women Don’t Tell Men
Poem excerpt. Post follows. If you want to change the world, love a man in all his instinctual animal nature, in all his hunger and devotion to beauty. Love him beyond your vanity and pridefulness, your gilded possessiveness and need to special- beyond your well thought out conditions for safety and all your concepts of […]
A New Word that Lit Me on Fire. Yes, I’m sharing!
This weekend at the Lucidity Festival, the Goddess spoke to me in the form of a beautiful black man with long gray dread locks named Astarius Miraculii. He poetically articulated my whole ideology around feminine pleasure and sex magic practices in a single word. I am so incredibly turned on by this word, so lit […]
Desire as an Antidote for Depression
I’ve struggled on and off with depression for most of my adult life, trying to relieve it with everything from positive thinking, to changing my diet, to exercise, to medication. Some might say that I’m a serial depressionist. I go down, sometimes deeper and for longer periods than others, but thankfully always manage to find […]
Orgasmic Spring Cleanse
Anatomy of an Orgasm Did you know the clitoris is not just a tiny little concentrated bundle of nerves on the hood of your vagina, but actually has energetic roots extending all the way down your legs to the pulsing magma core of the earth, as well as up through your pelvis and torso? And […]
