Talk Dirty to Me
I’m making a raunchy rap video (coming to youtube sometime early winter). And in the process, I’ve become acutely aware of the judgment people have around women talking dirty. Initially, my girlfriends were all over it. When I first shared my rap song with them, they were all like, “You gotta make a video!” […]
Seducing Your Inner Tyrants
What is the value of the masculine to you? What is the sacred purpose of the masculine in your life? When a male friend first asked me these questions, I honestly didn’t know how to answer him. When I finally did answer, I felt waves of sadness because my personal experience of the masculine was […]
How to Live More Spontaneously
Choice has been both the greatest blessing and curse in my life. When I feel like I don’t have a choice, I panic. Alternatively, not having any choice is sometimes the only way I’ll surrender into unknown territory. Choice always brings up doubt. And yet, I’ve learned to trust myself through choice. My life long […]
How to Have the Sex You Really Want
I’m always humbled to witness the courage of the women who come to me for private yoni work. I’m so in awe of their process and capacity to surrender. It’s cutting edge work. As one woman put it, “I’m so aware of the part of me that wants you in there, that wants to heal […]
How to Have Multidimensional Sex
The last session of the Women’s Sexual Mystery School included women ranging from ages 21 to 60 something. Our circle was a true representation of the Goddess, who is many ages and is ageless. Which led me to wonder, how does a woman cultivate agelessness? Traditionally, when a woman is given the compliment of being […]
How do you experience Surrender?
What is your relationship with surrender? What is your experience when you land on the surrender square in the game of your life? Do you embrace the opportunity to let go? Or resist it with every fiber of your being? Can you drop into the vast emptiness that surrender brings? Or do you exhaust every […]
Are you a Girl or a Goddess?
Session 3 of the Women’s Sexual Mystery- Awakening the Temple Priestess: The Art of Sensual Intelligence- is coming up! If you are curious about Tantra and wanting to experience more eroticism in your relationships and in your life, this session is for you! Along with helping women open, I offer Tantra pujas for couples. My […]
Women need each other to heal
This past weekend, on the eve of a lunar eclipse and full blood moon, women gathered together for session 2 of The Women’s Sexual Mystery School to intimately get to know our pelvic temples and reclaim the wisdom within our feminine organs. We began our day with partner yoga, looking into each other’s eyes, saying: […]
The Last Place I Ever Thought To Look
I learned yoni massage and pelvic release during my 3 year Tantra yoga certification program in the late ‘90s. But the profoundness of this work didn’t really sink in until recently, when last year I committed to my own daily pleasure practice, spending time with my lady Vagine for at least 30 minutes every day […]
Where do you meet your wildness?
Last night I had a dream a wild dog pup came to the basement door of my childhood home. It looked like it had been through some shit, with bloody patches of fur missing and all skin and bones. The basement of my house growing up had big sliding glass doors that opened to a […]
